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LATEST MSA NEWS:

Statement from USYS regarding the Developmental Players League (DPL):

In a statement from Lesle Gallimore, Commisioner of the GA: “The DPL and the GA are focused on the development of female athletes, providing clubs an opportunity to showcase the talent and potential of their players. While the general philosophies of each organization align, after careful review of the needs of each league, differences have arisen.  Accordingly, the DPL and GA have mutually agreed to terminate the existing Memorandum of Understanding. At this time, the DPL will move forward as a standalone league, not tied, tiered or linked exclusively to any other platform. GA clubs are permitted to enter the DPL as an option for their second level teams, should the DPL deem their quality to be appropriate. Furthermore, the GA will consider the results of games in the DPL as an indicator of competitiveness and readiness for future opportunities within the GA. Although the GA considers the DPL an Elite National Platform, the GA does not recognize a sole entity as the exclusive pathway to the GA. Both leagues, boards, and members are committed to supporting each other in an unofficial capacity as good stewards of the Women’s Game.”

 

MSA hosts our annual Registrar Summit:

August 7, 2021
Hilton Garden Inn, Flowood, MS; 
9 am - 5 pm -
Register HERE
Fee: $25 pp
Registration closes Monday, August 2nd.

A Focus on Behavior

March 15, 2022 12:00 PM

Written by US Youth Soccer CEO - Skip Gilbert

When I think of sport, I think of the values it instills in all of us. Soccer allows everyone who plays the opportunity to realize their full potential on the field and learn incredible characteristics to succeed off it. Certainly, I would not be the person I am today if it were not for the on and off field development learned through our beautiful game.

Look at the highlighted characteristics below. Every parent, every player, every coach and every referee should expect and yes, demand these seven attributes to be taught through our sport.

  • Soccer teaches us to be accountable.
  • Soccer teaches us to embrace a great attitude.
  • Soccer allows us to gain and understand confidence.
  • Soccer builds character.
  • Soccer teaches us the discipline of focus.
  • Soccer demands that we learn respect.
  • Soccer teaches us the value of teamwork.

But for an increasing number, the need to win, the need to be recruited, and the need to stand-out is eroding the fundamental benefits soccer has always provided. Earlier this year, a parent had written me about her son badly injured in a game. The injury, and subsequent surgery, did not heal well and required more procedures and ultimately the loss of a school year. Very difficult for someone hoping to be recruited to college.

The extent of the injury or the length of recovery is not the topic. We unfortunately deal with these issues from time to time. What was most disturbing was how she characterized the reaction to the injury by the other team.

In her letter, the Mom wrote that the opposing team “was way too aggressive” and that nine (9) yellow cards were issued.  She spoke with a parent from another team before kick-off and was warned that their culture was one of “take them out” and this team “will hurt your kids”. She continued by writing “even after my son was lying on the ground waiting for the ambulance, the coach was more worried about the time that would be put back on the clock rather than the wellbeing of a child”.

The point here is that we are too often dealing with issues of behavior, negative and abusive behavior. Coach behavior towards players and the referees. Parents behavior on the sidelines. And more recently, players behavior towards referees and players. This unfortunately is not just a soccer problem but one of society. Look at some of the headlines just from the past week:

  • The mayor of a city was ejected from his daughter’s high school basketball game after threatening a referee.
  • A volleyball official was followed off the court by a coach who was shouting obscenities.
  • A referee was assaulted and knocked unconscious during a basketball tournament.
  • A student from the opposing school in the stands shouted racist comments at a high school basketball player on the court.
  • At another game in another state, inappropriate chants were made against the opposing team’s players on the court.
  • While it was at a lower level, continued poor parent behavior in the stands led a Central New York youth basketball league to end the season early. 

Back to the Mom’s letter to me, her attitude would have been completely different if her son's injury had been handled better by the other team's coach, the other team's players, and the other team's parents.  For example, as the player was being lifted into the ambulance, the Mom acknowledged saying something to the other team’s players. Their response was aggressive and frightening…to an adult.

Those of us at USYS can’t wave a wand and have these issues magically disappear. We need help and we need help from every member of the USYS Family. We can’t condone bad behavior. We can’t accept that it is the way it is. To use the seven characteristics listed at the top to actually change behavior is easier than it might seem.

We need to hold everyone truly accountable for their behavior and as much as players should follow these guidelines, all adults must. They are simple. Praise others with great attitudes. Instill character development lessons into your vernacular. Teach respect by showing it at all times. Demand strong, unified teamwork with an unwavering focus on being aware of what’s happening around you and being sensitive to others. Be selfless and use your confidence to change the game and the world to be better.

Behavior is owned by all of us. It reflects sportsmanship. When we as parents speak of ethical behavior, fair play, and respect for the sport, we must demand it from our coaches, players, referees, the spectators and ourselves. We all need to do better; we all must do better.

 
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